Sunshine, Light, and Joy

 

This is a post that I've been thinking about for awhile. Recently, I opened up the discussion to other members of the staff to get their feelings on the matter, and their opinions generally matched mine, which is this:

Within the last year or so, there's been a steady increase of negative posts in movie threads. We've always had some heated discussions for some movies, but recently things have not only gotten more histrionic in those threads (generally speaking, the CBM ones), but they've started to spread to other franchises and other movies as well. I'm not talking about out-and-out trolling, I'm talking about members feeling they have to consistently shit on a movie (or studio, or star) simply because they aren't interested in the current project or projects. With every piece of news about a movie, it's now a virtual guarantee that there's a flood of people rushing to say they think it sucks, they don't like the current trailer/tv spot/actor/actress/director/concept. And I get it -- we all have movies we don't like, movies which we think are bad ideas, industry people that just don't appeal to us. But there's a fine line between expressing your opinion about this and doing it so often, with such consistency, that the collective emphasis of all of it basically brings down the entire thread and thus the entire forum.

There's no easy answer to this. We don't want to crush freedom of expression here. But at the same time, the spirit of this forum is for people to have fun talking about the movies they love and the box-office runs they love.

To have fun.

And while it may be fun -- in a sense -- to personally vent about a movie, or to vent at people who dare to enjoy something you don't, it doesn't bring fun to our community. In fact, it generally drags down the overall fun for everyone else. We've had people repeatedly mention to us over the last several months or so that in some cases they don't even bother going into some threads -- even for movies they're curious about! -- because they just don't want to deal with the overall mess those threads contain. And frankly, that matches the personal opinion of most of the staff as well.

So this post is both a request and a warning. 

The request: Next time you feel like taking a dump on a movie (or a topic) for the dozenth time, take a moment to consider whether it's really worth it. People probably already have a good idea of what your attitude about the project is. Maybe just put your posting energy into a movie that you enjoy and love or are excited about.

The warning: The staff is going to be taking a closer look at some of these threads and we'll be more active with temp thread-bans if we think it'll help the overall vibe of the forum. I'd rather we don't have to, but it's not going to constrain any of you too much if you aren't allowed to post about a movie you supposedly don't care about anyway.

Remember the words of Bill and Ted: "Be Excellent to Each Other".

They're just movies, guys. It's about having fun.

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  1. I think Mera looks great! Right out of the comic. Someone posted a side by side on tumblr and it was perfect. Love the colors. I admit, I'm not a fan of what DC has done, movie-wise, but I'm really looking forward to this one. Kind of seems to be embracing the campiness a bit. Hope its fun.
  2. Well, I'm interested in how it is reviewed. I wasn't impressed with Gadot in BvS or Fast & Furious, which I think are the only things I've seen her in. She seems very bland. Pretty, but not much happening there. On the other hand, that could easily have been the material she was given. Everyone has to start somewhere and perhaps she has really improved. So, it will be interesting to me to see what critics make of her as a lead. I genuinely hope the movie does well. I love WW and want more female-led movies, whether superhero or not, so I'm cheering for it. I'm just...reserving judgment, let's say. Hesitant to get excited. I've hated what DC has done so far, so...but, this could be the one that breaks out. Saw a great billboard for it downtown on my way in to work this morning. Glad to see it getting promotion. My daughter definitely wants to see it, so I'm sure we'll be going.
  3. I love both Alien and Aliens. Fewer things have horrified me (in a good way) more than Alien. Aliens really just took the idea and went a totally different direction, which was very smart. What really set them apart, for me, was that the characters felt so real, you could identify with them and care about them, unlike the cardboard, forgettable morons in the more recent films. Both movies really hinted at this larger world with more stories out there. I think part of my bitterness is that it could have been such an amazing franchise and then...wow, did they just muck it all up. It is the what could have been that keeps bringing me back, even though I am inevitably disappointed.
  4. Well, that was probably an honest answer, but not a terribly professional one to give. I don't know that many people actually expect JL to be better than Avengers, but it would've been easy enough to say that she can't spoil anything and is really excited to see the final products for both films or something noncommittal.
  5. I liked it better on rewatch, too. As others said, same with TFA. I think with TFA, I was just so nervous it was going to suck. I walked out feeling like, okay, that was...good? Then the second time, it was more holy sh*t, I think I love this. Didn't have quite the same depth of reaction with GotG2, but it did work even better for me the second time around. Just a really fun, watchable movie.
  6. Is he going to be in the Pacific Rim sequel? I thought it was John Boyega. Admittedly, I have not been following that one closely (obviously).
  7. Liked the last trailer. Still not a fan of Gadot, but my daughter wants to see this, so I guess we will be seeing it, lol. Hope it is decent, but my bar is pretty low for DC at the moment. Low expectations are probably a good thing.
  8. This article talks a little about the casting of Tom and mentions that RDJ read with the contenders and told the producers that Tom was the one to pick. I'm sure that wasn't the deciding factor, but I thought it was interesting. http://sassymamainla.com/2017/04/producers-kevin-feige-amy-pascal-spider-man-homecoming/.html
  9. I thought Prometheus suffered from trying so very hard to be clever that it forgot to be entertaining. Then, while it was being so smart and trying for all these big, important questions, it had characters doing truly stupid things, so the contrast was particularly annoying. I expect dumb character moves from Friday the 13th Part 100, but was hoping Ridley would do us a bit better. But, for me, it's biggest failing was simply being dull and completely not scary. The reviews for this one sound rather tepid, but at least a bit more entertaining. I guess I should give up on this franchise at this point, but I keep getting sucked back in.
  10. Looked fun and kind of different, but I can't help cheer for Sofia to kick Tom's ass. Sorry, Tom. Team Mummy all the way.
  11. Trailer in front of GotG2...it was kind of a weird hodgepodge of things. A first I thought, wow, this looks really good. Trapped soldiers, people going to help in tiny boats, I'm in. Then...lots of aerial shots and more explosions and stuff about bringing in the air force...? Thought it worked better as regular folk helping the soldiers story rather than some kind of war story about the fight itself. Lots of explosions. I don't know. Just kind of an odd trailer, like it wasn't sure what story it was trying to sell. I still think it looks good and would like to see it.
  12. Saw this last night and really enjoyed it. I think I liked it better than the first, if only for the way the Guardians were family and not at each other's throats. Think after Civil War, I was ready for that. Drax was honestly one of my favorite things. I really love the way they humanized him a little and while I didn't tear up at the end, that moment when he was talking about his daughter with Mantis and she reacted for him had me crying. Teenage Groot...heh.
  13. Saw it last night and really enjoyed it. Audience laughed A LOT. Definitely need to see it again.
  14. I wish I could get excited for this. I genuinely hope it does well, since I have loved WW since I was a little girl and because I want more female-anchored movies in general, so this doing well could help there, but it just does nothing for me. Gal is so very, very bland. Oh well. Maybe next time.
  15. Really enjoyed this. Sure, it is pretty by the numbers, plot-wise, but the performances were strong all around and there were some sweet and funny moments. Yes, I went b/c of CE. Sue me. Totally worth it, btw. Damn, son.