Here is the honest truth about Disney/Pixar and their path forward. I was one of the first that saw the kiss scene in Lightyear and said it was super harmless, sweet, loving and anyone who had an issue with it was an idiot.
With that said, for movies and shows targeted at young children, including scenes of representation in every project is going to be a losing strategy overall for Disney. At the end of the day, even parents that are completely supportive and comfortable with LGBTQ+ representation and gay rights just want to have their kids watch a movie that entertains and doesn't stir controversy every time you want to turn on something new. The argument is valid that the fact that it is even "controversy" is the problem, but the reality is that people just want to be entertained.
All that works great for adult skewing stuff like Doctor Strange: MoM and similar, but it is just going to tank projects like Lightyear and Baymax.