I see it's already been handled, but yeah, pretty simple answer -- pretty clear why the one who comes out of nowhere starting things with personal insults deserves most of the blame/warnings. As for myself, I feel that it's ridiculous to say that I was engaged in "abusive behavior" last weekend, but I am partially in the wrong thos time -- I should have kept NIRD n mind. (I actually do have the "I" covered, but I often click "show comment" since their median comments is mostly positive value). I will rely more upon R and D in the future.