So, we can't consider it a criticize when we dislike a hero that is in portrayed in a manner we don't like? I mean, we can criticize Roger Moore, or Lazenby, Or Dalton, or Craig, or Brosnan for being a Bond we don't like. We can criticize RDJ, or Cumberbatch, or Jonny Lee Miller for a Sherlock Holmes we don't like. We can criticize Chris Pine for being a Kirk we don't like. BUT we can't criticize this Superman, because we don't like his portrayal.
How about just letting people not like this version of Superman? It's okay, and a legitimate criticism people may have. We don't have to agree with each other, but not liking the way a character is portrayed isn't the same as being unwilling to see a different perspective.