If this person really believes what they're saying, that it's fine if Bond doesn't treat women well but the films themselves should treat them well...then why is this even an issue? They've been treating the female characters pretty damn well since Casino Royale, a movie featuring maybe the best Bond girl ever in Vesper. And the Craig movies have given us the best Moneypenny BY FAR.
You can complain about the Russian girl in Quantum of Solace if you want, but that entire movie was underwritten, so it's not exclusive to her.